How can i handle the aloof, abrupt & stand-offish ways in which people still treat me in my community ?

Sweetie listen ok,,,, if these people are stareing at you and are stand-offish towards you then let it be their problem. By getting upset over it you are allowing their problem to become yours. You know yourself that you do have some problems but then everyone has problems in one sense of the word or the other. If you just ignore them and go about your own business then they will either stop or not, but it will no longer bother you when they do! Does that make sense to you? You have no control over what others do... only control you have is over how you react to them, so if you don't react they have nothing to stand on!! I hope you can understand what I am trying to tell you! Best of Luck to you Sweetie... LET IT BE THEIR PROBLEM NOT YOURS!! Gentle Hugs