Sunday, November 6, 2011

Not dealing well will ex husband hostility?

Hey girl! I can totally relate to your situation. I too have been divorced for almost 3 years (after being married for almost 23 years and with 4 children together). My ex gives me the cold shoulder treatment too. I try and smile and speak every time we run into each other but he never responds nor acknowledges me at our children's functions.He acts as if I'm not even present at football games, graduations and even our son's wedding reception. Throughout the entire divorce process I was depressed and hurt and angry. I became so stressed out. Ended up with stage 3 cancer. I have a new boyfriend who stuck by me throughout my entire cancer treatments and honestly I truly believe that had I stayed with my ex I would not be where I am today! It's been exactly 1 year since my diagnosis and I'm dong great! I'm happy and very blessed! Thanks to my boyfriend and my family...I thank God for them everyday. It is definitely time for you to move on and do what makes you happy. Don't think about the past or think about what coulda,shoulda,woulda! It's over and you need to focus on your new life! If he changes and becomes a better person...great. If not that's great too. Don't let him nor anyone else steal your happiness...Life is too short not to enjoy it! Wishing you the best of luck! Hope this helps! Smooches!

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